the other day me and my boyfriend were talking and i was telling him that i've only had 1 boyfriend and he was telling me about all of the people he's seen/ been with. Although he's only been in one serious relationship before.. if that was your boyfriend would it put you off ? we're both 23 too

10 months ago 4


  1. dk

    I think it would put off any person who is looking for a long term relationship regardless of their gender. I suppose you're in luck though since the number of previous sexual partners for men has not been shown to result in a lower likelihood for a long term relationship surviving but it HAS been shown to do that if a woman has slept with a lot of men. It's certainly something that warrants concern but on the bright side it is not the end of the world. If he is a good person and sees those things as foolish mistakes then you're probably in the safe zone. You should talk to him about it more if you really feel concerned.

  2. jay


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  4. David

    try not to judge people. maybe they were just available to him

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